The Snowball Effect

Remember this old proverb?

For want of a nail the shoe was lost.
For want of a shoe the horse was lost.
For want of a horse the rider was lost.
For want of a rider the message was lost.
For want of a message the battle was lost.
For want of a battle the kingdom was lost.
And all for the want of a horseshoe nail.

Of course, this proverb is meant to show that small actions can result in big consequences.  Don’t I know it!

All I wanted was a new dishwasher.  Was that too much to ask?  We’ve been researching them for quite awhile and waiting for sales, and we finally purchased a Bosch with all the bells and whistles.  You can stand right next to it and hardly know it is on.  We bought it from a large chain store who uses subcontractors to install their appliances.  The installer came two weeks ago, installed my lovely new dishwasher, said, “You’re good to go,” and left.    That night we loaded it up and ran it.  We were able to watch a television show with it two feet away, and we didn’t even hear it.  So far so good.

The next day a friend came over, sat at my kitchen table, and remarked, “You have such beautiful floors.”  As she said this, I glanced down and saw a dark discoloration at the ends of several planks.  I had no idea what it was.  I tried to think if I had used any unusual cleaner last time I washed them, but I knew I hadn’t.  My husband came home a little while later and noticed the discoloration immediately.

“What’s this?”  he asked.  When I told him I had no idea, he lifted up the long gel mat that I keep along the edge of the sink and the dishwasher, and the discoloration was even worse.  

“Aaarrrggggghhhhh! The dishwasher!” we yelled in tandem.  The dishwasher had obviously leaked, but instead of flooding the top of the floor where we would have seen it and dealt with it immediately, the water went under the floor boards because the dishwasher sits on the concrete slab a little below the edge of the floor.  The damage even extended into our dining room.

The fiasco is the result of the installer connecting the wrong end of the drain hose to the dishwasher.  He did not read each end of the hose which clearly says, “Dishwasher end” and “Garbage disposal end.”  Since those ends are not quite the same size, the installer had to force the connection from the dishwasher into a hose that was too small, thereby compromising the integrity of the hose.

Rather than giving you every gory detailed of what transpired after that, we will fast-forward to what is happening now.  The floor repair man came yesterday, assessed the situation and gave us the bad news. Because the entire downstairs is hardwood bamboo, we can’t just refinish the kitchen floor since it flows seamlessly into the dining room and family room.  So the entire downstairs floors will have to be refinished.  That requires moving all the furniture out.  To move all the furniture out requires me to empty all my dishes and other items from all my drawers, my china cabinet, curio, etc.  I will have to box them up as there is nowhere to put them.  It will be like moving all over again.  The piano has to be moved which will result in it needing another tuning.  We will have to go out to eat for a week and a half as we will not have our kitchen.  I will be a prisoner upstairs for a week and a half because I do not like to leave the house to strangers as they do their work.

Yes, the installer’s insurance will cover the cost of refinishing the floors (and the bill is a doozy!), but lost time and inconvenience is never covered.  And all that had to be done for this to be avoided is for the installer to read what was written on the end of the hose.  I just wanted a new dishwasher.  Was that too much to ask?

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Police! Help!

This morning I read an article in the paper about a Richmond police initiative that is making people angry.  In an effort to help the good citizens of Richmond protect their property, the police are roaming neighborhoods between midnight and 4 am and peeking in  parked cars.  If they see valuables in plain sight, they are knocking on doors, waking owners, and admonishing them to keep their property out of sight.  This has been in response to a rash of car burglaries.

Can you believe that people would actually be angry with being awoken in the wee hours of the morning to be told they are careless?  Boggles the mind, doesn’t it?  I mean, I don’t think the police are going far enough, if you ask me.  If I had my way, I’d have the police be even more intrusive because I need all the help I can get.  These are some of the things I propose:

  • I would like the police to check and make sure I’ve put the garage door down when I leave the house.
  • If I give the police my key and my security code, can they come into my house and make sure I’ve turned the stove off?  Unplugged the coffee pot?  I would also give them permission to taste the stew bubbling away on my unattended stove and adjust the seasonings.  Might as well, if they are  in my kitchen anyway.
  • Police should patrol inside of grocery stores.  I see many women who leave their pocketbooks (purses to you younger women) in their grocery carts while they wander halfway down the isle to retrieve a box of Cheerios.  A lot of admonishing is obviously called for there.

I’m just wondering, though, as helpful as these things might be, if police might find better things to do with their time than to babysit careless people.  If people continue to leave valuables in plain sight, even though they’ve been warned over and over again that they are asking for trouble, then  getting burglarized should come as no surprise.

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Weekly Photo Challenge: Sun

This week’s photo challenge is about viewing the sun from a perspective other than sunrise and sunset.

Sun shining on ocean, Virginia Beach

Sun shining through stained glass window of little Episcopal church in Stonington, Connecticut

Sun peeking between buildings, New York City

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An Unexpected Bargain

Taken from inside Abalonetti Seafood Trattoria...

Taken from inside Abalonetti Seafood Trattoria, Fisherman's Wharf, Monterey, California (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

When I taught math, one thing I drilled into my students was to consider if their answer was reasonable. Sometimes students would insist that they had checked and rechecked their answers and their computations were correct. They we’re frustrated when I’d tell them to read the problem again.

“Does it seem reasonable to you that these people would buy 25,000 square yards of carpet for a house that is only 1600 square feet?” I would ask. They’d think about it for a second, realize they had miscalculated somewhere, and take their paper back to figure out where they went wrong.

The reason I bring this up is because I received a call from my girlfriend Joanie a few days ago that left me scratching my head. Her daughter is getting married in a couple of weeks, and we had sent them a bunch of things off their bridal registry.

“Susie, the kids are here, and they wanted me to tell you that you are very generous,” she said. I thought that they had gotten all the items we had sent them, but apparently everything hadn’t been shipped at once, and they had only gotten one item.

“You must think they are very messy people,” she said.

“What are you talking about?” I was puzzled.

“I’m talking about the 64 cloth napkins you sent them!” she said, laughing.

On their bridal registry they had asked for one set of eight napkins at $2.49 each. As nice cloth napkins usually cost no less than five or six dollars apiece, the price of $2.49 apiece was a bargain. However, the person who filled our order took it to mean that one entire set of eight napkins cost the $2.49, and since we had asked for eight at that price, he or she assumed we wanted eight sets of eight. I was charged $19.99 for all 64 napkins. Now either an entire set of eight napkins cost only $2.49, in which case you should consider ordering the Harvest napkins from Bed, Bath, and Beyond, or someone wasn’t thinking of the reasonableness of that order. If it’s the latter, I sincerely hope it wasn’t one of my students.

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A Step Too Small

” What type of oil did you cook the squash in?” my husband asked the other day.
“I sauteed it in olive oil and a little butter,” I told him, surprised by the question. A few days ago he asked me how to make salad dressing and memorized the proportion of three parts oil to one part vinegar. My husband does not cook, though he can do a good job of hamburgers or chicken on the grill. And he can fry an egg. But anything fancier than that is beyond him. I got an emergency call from him one Friday night a few weeks ago when I was in Michigan visiting my daughter.

“I’m trying to make frozen pizza for dinner,” he said, a question hanging in the air.
“And?” I responded, confused as to what that question might be.
“What temperature and for how long?”
Now I understood. We had bought a three-pack of DiGiorno pizzas at Sam’s club, and I had to take them out of the box because the box took up too much room in the freezer. Since they were individually wrapped, I didn’t need the box, but of course, the directions were gone.
“Twenty three minutes at 400 degrees,” I said. There was a long pause as he processed that.
“Do I take the cardboard off the bottom before I put it in the oven?” I had to cover the phone so he couldn’t hear my daughter and me laughing hysterically.

So this morning at breakfast I was gratified again when my husband asked another cooking question because I assumed that means he wants to learn how to become more useful in the kitchen. He wanted to know what seasonings I had used in the omelette.
“Fresh basil and a pinch of Aleppo pepper. I’ve noticed you’ve been asking a lot of cooking questions lately. A lot of questions but nothing in practice.”
He smiled. “One step at a time.”

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I’m Trying to Find the Right Sport for Me

Tuesday night  49-year-old Jamie Moyer of the Colorado Rockies became the oldest Pitcher ever to win a major league baseball game.  This morning I read about Hiroshi Hoketsu, a 71-year-old man from Japan who will compete in individual dressage in this Year’s summer Olympics.  Later this morning I will have to face Ruth in yoga class and watch her beat the yoga pants off me as she gracefully bends, twists, balances, and holds those poses for impossibly long periods of time while I crumple into a puddle in child’s pose halfway through the session, silently screaming, “No more!” Did I mention that Ruth turned 85 this week?

My problem is that I’ve come late to the game.  Growing up I was a girly girl and hated any kind of contact sport.  My definition of a contact sport was any sport where something could come in contact with my body, such as a volleyball, a baseball, a shuttlecock, water and air.  Now I am trying to remedy that.  I joined the YMCA when we moved here three and a half years ago and try to go three or four times a week.  I’m walking more and going to yoga twice a week.

You would think starting so late in life would make me want to take it easy, but it has just the opposite effect. I want to make up for lost time. I’m trying to find the right sport for me, one that will make me feel cocky and powerful. My daughter has taken up running, but my knees and hips can’t take that pounding. Plus, I don’t like sports that make you sweat, or glisten, as ladies in the South do. My granddaughter is on the swim team, so that’s a possibility. I don’t have to get my hair wet, do I? My daughter-in-law does kick-boxing. I might be able to do the boxing part, but I can’t get my leg up high enough to kick. I’m starting to eye that equestrian sport as something that would work. I mean, you get to sit down, so how hard can it be? Doesn’t the horse do most of the work? Of course, those cute little costumes must be hot, and that would make you sweat, so I might have to rethink that. I’ll get back to you when I’ve picked the right sport. Maybe you could offer suggestions. Here are my requirements: find me a sport where you don’t sweat, don’t run out of breath, don’t have to lift heavy objects, does not involve people throwing things or hitting things at you, and you get to wear cute clothes. Oh, wait a minute. Golf. Is that really a sport?

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Weekly Photo Challenge: Two Subjects

This past weekend we went to the Norfolk Botannical Gardens to see the azaleas, and I came across these two trees.  They fascinated me because they were nearly mirror images of each other, standing stately and tall with branches just on one side of each of their trunks.  Because they were so close together when they were growing, the side closest to each other was devoid of branches.  It is as if these two trees complete each other. They make me think of a good marriage.  Two people growing side by side, completing each other.

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